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Willis Combse
Finding the right girl for you is a difficult task. Even if you have an active dating life it can be a real challenge to find someone that you have that chemistry with. You may go out with nice girls, and you may think the world of them but if there isn't that connection and chemistry it is all for not. If you find yourself doubting her and questioning the connection that is there or is not there then you have to move on. When You Do Find The Right Girl When you do find the right woman for you, you will have no doubt and you will not question your feelings towards her. You'll be ecstatic about her and want to spend all your time with her. It is clear and apparent that many people never find the right person as evident by our high divorce rate, infidelity, and unhappy people in relationships. It's not always your fault or her fault. Sometimes the spark just isn't there and rather than force a relationship you need to recognize that you should find someone where the spark is there. Is It You? While you may be out on a date with a really nice and genuine woman, if you don't feel the connection, it's hard to imagine how you could be happy in a relationship with her 10 years down the road or let alone 2 months down the road. Often when you are out with a nice girl you may wonder is it just me? Am I hung up on an ex? Unfortunately it really doesn't matter what the problem is be it you or her, the reality is the chemistry is not present. Sometimes it might be you and other times it might be her. More frequently it is neither of you but simply the connection doesn't exist. How To Know When You Find The Right Person When you find the right person for you, you will feel it in your gut. You will be willing to compromise and do things that she wants to do just so you can spend time together. When you leave her you will only be thinking about when the next time is that you can get together. You will spend time thinking about her when you aren't together and you will genuinely want to see her happy! Clearly it is so much easier to create and stay in a relationship because it is convenient and does not require you to go out into the world and face possible rejection and even humiliation. However to truly achieve happiness and satisfaction in a relationship you have to do things that aren't always easy. In sum, if you continue to search and not settle for a woman that is willing to just date you, you can find happiness with the right person for you. I really like the quote "If life was boring what would I do with myself."
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