| By :
Bill Wynne
The battle with acne is brutal enough without worrying about acne and self-esteem issues but it should be considered since the emotional impact can lead to depression and suicidal thoughts. Everyone will have their own way of relating to acne and this is worse for some than others. For example, a person that usually has a high self-esteem before acne can have less self-esteem after their personal bout with acne. People with a low self-esteem from acne will feel from time to time that people are making jokes about pimples, or they may even feel a bit paranoid and think, when standing in a group of people, that people are staring at their skin. Friends can help out a lot with support and the person will usually able to let comments and strange looks roll off their back like beads of rain. If a person is in the the public and feels like everyone is looking at their acne the person may create a social barricade because of their lack of self-esteem. Teenagers can lose interest in school and are unable to focus on their studying. Older people in their twenties, thirties and forties may have a more difficult time at work. This problem has been known to affect those of all ages. There are millions world wide dealing with this unfortunate incident. However, there is no need to give up hope. Here are tips that have helped many boost self-esteem and help people enjoy life the way life was intended. Always Smile Be proud of who you are and allow others to see that. This is the most important tip because no matter how many pimples you have, others always notice a nice big attractive smile. You never know, your smile could be a hidden best future yet to be found until now. No Need to Put Up a Mask There is no need to change who you are. Some people feel the need to close and lock themselves in their homes until the acne has run it's course. Self confinement is not the answer. You need to get out there and keep being who you are. Participate in activities you like and raise your confidence and self-esteem. Allow your personality to shine brighter than before. Call Up Some Good Friends & Get Out There I know when I am feeling down about anything, it always helps to call up some great friends and make plans to get together. Friends are very encouraging and uplifting. This is why I encourage you to allow your friends to say good things about you and just have a fun time. After all...Life is much too short to be spent alone and unhappy. Keep before you positive things that make you happy. The negative comments need to be ignored, let them roll off your back like "water on a duck". Even Get a Hair Cut This may sound a little goofy, however it always helps boost confidence when you feel you look your best. Not to mention, I always have a great time chatting with the stylist and other costumers. Try it, it may even work for you. Do Something You Really Enjoy Doing Have you ever noticed when your having fun, time seems to fly by without a care in the world. Doing what you love to do always takes your mind off of things and even works with acne. So call up some of your closest friends and make plans to catch a movie, go for a hike, go to the mall and buy those pair of shoes you have been debating about purchasing, get out and do what you absolutely love doing and enjoy life. Should you realize that acne is influencing your self-esteem so that you feel depressed or have had dark thoughts of suicide you need to change your thoughts. I wish you all the best.
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